TRY LETTING GO AND START FOCUSSING ON YOUR TRUE PASSION
All of us have issues or things we choose to hang on to. It may be an object, job, friendships, old flame, or even a bad habit.
Situations and things that affect our ability to move forward in our lives.
Maybe your not advancing in your job and it is completely out of your control.
Failure to clear clutter from your life may be preventing you from getting organized and becoming more efficient.
Continuing to wait for that special person to call may be affecting your ability to find that someone who really thinks the world of you.
We may get so focussed on that one thing, we can not have, that we lose sight of what we really should be pursuing.
The first step is to simply recognize that there is a problem. There are usually signs all around us that everyone else can see while we are walking in circles with blinders on.
We all need to make self analysis a part of our daily ritual.
Are you being rewarded for the energy you put into this thing, person, or goal you are pursuing?
Are there signs all around that things are never going to get better than they are?
If you stopped trying so hard would things then fall into place?
Is there any aspect of what you desire that you do have control over?
At some point the key to moving forward is to accept you have done all that you can do.
Your mind will never be clear from obsessing over that unobtainable desire until you accept that you need to change or that you are going to control how you think about it.
None of us like to make change. There is comfort in consistency and having control in our lives.
We essentially need to take a neurtral stance on the issue that is preventing our lives from moving forward. Once we do it will seem like a door was opened, the fog was lifted, or a path was cleared.
When you accept that continuing to pursue a friendship, love, job, or other goal is no longer rewarding you will find your mind beginning to clear and you will have more energy to pursue more rewarding passions.
So starting today, recognize the obsession that is holding you back. Accept that you have no control to change it. Find something of more value to start focussing on.
Start letting go………..to get going.
